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Saturday, January 31, 2015

everything to me versi Shane Filan

Musik yang ceria membuat hati ceria.
If life is like a jigsaw
Where would you start
You think you got the picture
Like it's written on your heart
You lay out all the pieces
One by one
But if you stare at it too closely
The answer never comes

So I take a breath
Cos I need time to figure this all out
I got lost inside
What I thought I need
But I understand now

Cause I don't need the sunlight shining on my face
And I don't need perfection to have the perfect day
I just want to see you happy a smile on your face
Nothing else matters cos you're everything to me.. to me.. to me..
You're everything to me

Can you tell me where I'm going
Tell me what comes next
Cause I know that it's not over
Haven't even started yet
I just wanna get there
But I hope it's not too late
Cause the closer that I'm getting
The more I feel the way

Let's take a break
Take our time
To figure this all out
I got lost inside
What I thought I need
But I understand now

Cause I don't need the sunlight shining on my face
And I don't need perfection to have the perfect day
I just want to see you happy a smile on your face
Nothing else matters cos you're everything to me

All that I thought I want
Is not what I really need
You're right here in front of me

No, I don't need the sunlight shining on my face
And I don't need perfection to have the perfect day
I just want to see you happy a smile on your face
Nothing else matters
No nothing else matters

Cos I don't need the sunlight shining on my face
And I don't need perfection to have the perfect day
I just want to see you happy a smile on your face
Nothing else matters
No nothing else matters

Yeah I don't need the sunlight shining on my face
And I don't need perfection to have the perfect day
I just want to see you happy a smile on your face
Nothing else matters cos you're everything to me.. to me.. to me..
You're everything to me

Friday, January 30, 2015

Blank Space by Taylor Swift

Berasa cemburuannya sih. Ya, namanya juga orang jatuh cinta, terus pacarnya ketahuan selingkuh. BEEEH! Ya udah deh. Ini bukan tentang gue yang pasti. Cuma suka aja sama lagu ini.
Nice to meet you, where you been?
I could show you incredible things
Magic, madness, heaven sin
Saw you there and I thought
Oh my God, look at that face
You look like my next mistake
Love's a game, want to play?
New money, suit and tie
I can read you like a magazine
Ain't it funny, rumors, lie
And I know you heard about me
So hey, let's be friends
I'm dying to see how this one ends
Grab your passport and my hand
I can make the bad guys good for a weekend

So it's gonna be forever
Or it's gonna go down in flames
You can tell me when it's over
If the high was worth the pain
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They'll tell you I'm insane
'Cause you know I love the players
And you love the game

'Cause we're young and we're reckless
We'll take this way too far
It'll leave you breathless
Or with a nasty scar
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They'll tell you I'm insane
But I've got a blank space baby
And I'll write your name

Cherry lips, crystal skies
I could show you incredible things
Stolen kisses, pretty lies
You're the king baby I'm your Queen
Find out what you want
Be that girl for a month
Wait the worst is yet to come, oh no
Screaming, crying, perfect storm
I can make all the tables turn
Rose gardens filled with thorns
Keep you second guessing like
"Oh my God, who is she?"
I get drunk on jealousy
But you'll come back each time you leave
'Cause darling I'm a nightmare dressed like a daydream

So it's gonna be forever
Or it's gonna go down in flames
You can tell me when it's over
If the high was worth the pain
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They'll tell you I'm insane
'Cause you know I love the players
And you love the game

'Cause we're young and we're reckless
We'll take this way too far
It'll leave you breathless
Or with a nasty scar
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They'll tell you I'm insane (Insane)
But I've got a blank space baby
And I'll write your name

Boys only want love if it's torture
Don't say I didn't say I didn't warn ya
Boys only want love if it's torture
Don't say I didn't say I didn't warn ya

So it's gonna be forever
Or it's gonna go down in flames
You can tell me when it's over
If the high was worth the pain
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They'll tell you I'm insane
'Cause you know I love the players
And you love the game

'Cause we're young and we're reckless
We'll take this way too far
It'll leave you breathless
Or with a nasty scar
Got a long list of ex-lovers
They'll tell you I'm insane
But I've got a blank space baby
And I'll write your name

Wednesday, January 28, 2015

home versi Daughtry

Lagu ini gue denger saat nonton film criminal mind, season berapa gitu. Lupa. Sekali denger lagu ini, gue langsung suka. Padahal lagu lama, tapi enak.
I'm staring out into the night,
Trying to hide the pain.
I'm going to the place where love
And feeling good don't ever cost a thing.
And the pain you feel's a different kind of pain.

Well I'm going home,
Back to the place where I belong,
And where your love has always been enough for me.
I'm not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don't regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old,
So I'm going home.
Well I'm going home.

The miles are getting longer, it seems,
The closer I get to you.
I've not always been the best man or friend for you.
But your love remains true.
And I don't know why.
You always seem to give me another try.

So I'm going home,
Back to the place where I belong,
And where your love has always been enough for me.
I'm not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don't regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old,

Be careful what you wish for,
'Cause you just might get it all.
You just might get it all,
And then some you don't want.
Be careful what you wish for,
'Cause you just might get it all.
You just might get it all, yeah.

Oh, well I'm going home,
Back to the place where I belong,
And where your love has always been enough for me.
I'm not running from.
No, I think you got me all wrong.
I don't regret this life I chose for me.
But these places and these faces are getting old.
I said these places and these faces are getting old,
So I'm going home.
I'm going home.

Monday, January 26, 2015

start with i love you by Jesse McCartney

sebenernya ini adalah judul lagu dari Jesse McCartney. Maunya sih dibuat romantis gimana gitu, tapi ternyata lagu ini lebih mengambarkan, jadi post nya lagu aja deh.


It's been three years since we said goodbye
Man, what a run
Resenting everything about you just because I wasn't loved
I know it hurt you, and now we're dissing
I didn't think he'd take my place
But I'm done with visionin' if things were different
I will need a second chance

Chorus:
We'll start with I love you
It's feeling like the very first time
Well start with I love you
Even though it's been some time
I'll put my cards on the table
Girl I'm ready, willing, able
Let the past be the past,
Move on and make it last
Ima breathe in slow and clear my throat
And start with I love you (love you)

A thousand different faces may have passed us by
We would try
But time would heal the pain we felt inside
And we find that he don't love you
Like I love you
Girl Ima swallow my pride
Cause she don't know me, like you know me
I can't keep on living this lie (so)

Chorus:
We'll start with I love you
Hey, It's feeling like the very first time
We'll start with I love you
Even though it's been some time
I'll put my cards on the table
Girl Im ready, willing, able
Let the past be the past,
Move on and make it last
Ima breathe in slow and clear my throat
And start with I love you (love you)

I'm the love of your life
Dont even think twice
If you haven't said it,
Then man you're gonna regret it, say it yeah, say yeah
And tell her I love you

Chorus:
We'll start with I love you
It's feeling like the very first time
We'll start with I love you
Even though it's been some time
I'll put my cards on the table
Girl I'm ready, willing, able
Let the past be the past,
Move on and make it last
Ima breathe in slow and clear my throat
And start with I love you (love you)

Sunday, January 25, 2015

a thousand years versi Christina Perri

Lagu yang tren karena film Twilght, ini menjadi lagu cinta kenangan (gue mungkin). Lagu yang slow dan santai, mengambarkan bahwa perempuan yang sedang jatuh cinta ini akan MENUNGGU kekasihnya.

(Verse 1)
Heart beats fast (katanya, kalau jatuh cinta, hati deg-deg an. Gue sih merasakan hal itu)
Colors and promises (mungkin pasangan lain udah sampai janji untuk saling mencintai. Gue gak sih, cuma rasanya seperti gue yang berbuat janji untuk diri sendiri)
How to be brave (berani buat bilang? Gak sih. Gue aja udah di block dimana-mana. Mungkin gue terlalu annoying?)
How can I love when I'm afraid (Awalnya gak takut jatuh cinta sama tuh orang. Bahkan gue merasa biasa-biasa aja. Temenan mungkin. Tapi lama-lama....)
To fall (gue jatuh. Jatuh hati karena perbuatannya)
But watching you stand alone (Gak pernah liat dia sendiri sih. Paling ngumpul sama temen-temennya.)
All of my doubt suddenly goes away somehow (Gue gak ragu sama perasaan gue. Tapi gue rasa sama dia yang menunjukkan perubahan perilaku sampai menjauh parah. Emang gue salah apa dah!)

One step closer (langkahnya makin jauh. Bukan makin deket.)

(Chorus)
I have died every day waiting for you (iya. Mungkin sekarang gue udah mati.)
Darlin' don't be afraid (gue rasa bukan dia yang takut. Tapi gue juga takut)
I have loved you for a thousand years (takut menghadapi kenyataan.)
I'll love you for a thousand more (Kalau mau jujur sih iya. Gue suka dan mungkin lebih)

(Verse 2)
Time stands still beauty in all she is (Gue percaya aja sama waktu.)
I will be brave (Suatu saat nanti, ketika takdir berkata, gue pasti tau alasannya apa.)
I will not let anything take away (Alasan kenapa dia ngejauhin gue.)
What's standing in front of me
Every breath, every hour has come to this

One step closer

(Chorus)
I have died every day waiting for you
Darlin' don't be afraid
I have loved you for a
Thousand years
I'll love you for a
Thousand more

And all along I believed I would find you (gue akan mendapatkan jawabannya. Suatu saat nanti.)
Time has brought your heart to me (Tentang jawaban dan perasaan.)
I have loved you for a thousand years
I'll love you for a thousand more

One step closer
One step closer

(Chorus)
I have died every day
Waiting for you
Darlin' don't be afraid,
I have loved you for a
Thousand years
I'll love you for a
Thousand more

And all along I believed
I would find you
Time has brought
Your heart to me
I have loved you for a
Thousand years
I'll love you for a
Thousand more

Saturday, January 24, 2015

dangerous versi the vamps

Cuma bisa tersenyum sih kalau denger lagu ini. Abis gimana yaaaa..
So wake me up
'Cause I've been asleep now for days
How do I get up?
Oh Oh Oh Oh Oh Oh
And way back when
We used to fall hard in love
How to mess it up?
Oh Oh Oh Oh Oh Oh
This ain't the end of us
Darling let me show you
I am good enough
Maybe In the end I should've toughened up
Not self-destruct
But I'll see her again

Met a girl and she is dangerous
Don't quite know her
But I just can't get enough
I'm struck
She's gonna tear me up
A million voices telling me to never give you up
Should've listened but I'm addicted to this darker love
And this is dangerous for me

I must confess
Im feeling guilty
My conscience is heavy
I'm a wreck
This ain't the end of us
Darling let me show you
I'm not giving up
I tried to tell myself that I can toughened up
Not self-destruct
But I'll see her again
Met a girl and she is dangerous
Don't quite know her
But I just can't get enough
I'm struck
She's gonna tear me up
A million voices telling me to never give you up
Should've listened but I'm addicted to this darker love
And this is dangerous for me

Even though I said I'm sorry
I still go back
Always go back
Back to her

This ain't the end of us
Darling let me show you
I am good enough
Maybe In the end I should've toughened up

Met a girl and she is dangerous
Don't quite know her
But I just can't get enough
I'm struck
She's gonna tear me up
A million voices telling me to never give you up
Should've listened but I'm addicted to this darker love
And this is dangerous for me

Tuesday, January 20, 2015

In The Realms of Medieval Fantasy

1. You are walking in a field of rolling green grass and the wind is blowing soothingly upon your face when you see a box in the middle of the field. Is it
a. Open?
b. Closed?

2. As you walk by the box, you notice a horse patiently chewing grass. What color is it?
a. White
b. Brown
c. Black

3. A magical flight of steps appears before your eyes. Mesmerized, you notice that the staircase is leading
a. Up
b. Down

4. Unable to fight your burning curiosity, you take the flight of steps and enter a forest. It is hot but you walk on before realizing you have to cross a river to carry on your journey. The river is
a. Gushing along madly
b. Flowing at a normal pace
c. Meandering slowly.

5. You trudge along the forest path until you spot a cottage. Upon entering the house, you see a wine glass. To what extent is the glass filled with wine?

6. You spend a night in the cottage and after waking up the next morning, you step out into the bright day and see a pond in the distance. How many swans are there in the pond?

If you are a girl, go to the next question. If you are a guy, go to question 8.

7. As you approach the pond to feed the swans, you see a knight clad in armor. As the knight takes off his helmet to greet you, you realize it is someone you know. Who is it?

8. As you approach the pond to feed the swans, you see a princess in royal robes. As the princess unveils herself to greet you, you realize it is someone you know. Who is it?

Results

1.This describes your personality.
a. Open-minded and somewhat extroverted. You talk freely to people.
b. Reserved and quiet. You do not like to share secrets.

2. This is the way you choose your mate.
a. You care about looks and personality
b. You do not care about looks, only personality.
c. You do not care about personality, only looks.

3. This is your outlook on life.
a. Optimistic
b. Pessimistic

4. This is your sex drive
a. Wild.
b. Average
c. Tame

5. This refers to how much you would put into a relationship; the more wine in the glass, the more dedicated you are.

6. The number of true loves you'll have in your life.

7 and 8. The person you will never get over or forget.

Saturday, January 17, 2015

The River Test

Rank five people according to their actions in a scenario in which a lady attempts to cross a river in order to be reunited with her boyfriend.

Charlie and Linda who are very much in love and devoted to one another, are separated by a river with no way of getting across to the other side. On Linda's side of the river, there is a boatman who is able to take her over to the other side of the river but refuses to do so unless she pays him $100, twice his normal fare. Linda has no money and has no other way to get back across the river. Another man, Steve, then tells Linda that he will giver her $100 if she sleeps with him. Linda agrees to do so and on receiving the $100, pays the boatman who takes her over to the other side of the river. She is reunited with Charlie and they are very happy together. However, Charlie's friend, Felix, finds out what happened and immediately tells Charlie. On learning the news, Charlie finds Linda and ends things with her, stating that he wants nothing more to do with her.

Your task is to rank these five people, according to how much you sympathize with their characters or identify with their actions.

Analysis:

Here is what each character in the story represents:

Boatman: Business
Charlie: Chastity
Felix: Friendship
Linda: Love
Steve: Sex

Your answer reveals how you rank business, chastity, friendship, love and sex, and therefore their importance in your life.

People having similar ranking systems tend to be compatible - not surprisingly, since the above choices are an important indicator of character and values. People who give opposite or mutually random answers tend not to get along well.

Tuesday, January 13, 2015

love is love

Tanggal 10-11 kemarin, gue jadi panitia acara fakultas gue yang bekerja sama dengan Arus Pelangi, dimana AP ini mendukung teman-teman LGBT untuk menyuarakan hak mereka. Banyak pelajaran baru yang gue dapatkan setelah hari itu. Dan pelajaran yang akan selalu gue ingat adalah "Manusia butuh CINTA, KASIH SAYANG, dan PENGHARGAAN." Penghargaan ini disini maksudnya adalah bukan harga yang dijual gitu lhoo ya! Maksudnya adalah dihargai hak mereka.

Gue baru menyadari bahwa semua orang yang mau jujur ke orang lain terutama coming out butuh perjuangan yang besar. Susah untuk jujur tentang diri sendiri apalagi masalah seks. Ternyata banyak gejolak yang dialami. Di Indonesia, yang menurut orang-orang adalah budaya TIMUR, budaya yang memandang "aneh" kalau suka sesama jenis atau bahkan membicarakan masalah seks dimuka umum. Gue tekankan ya, SEKS bukan hanya masalah laki dan perempuan atau penis dan vagina, tapi LEBIH DARI ITU.

SOGIE adalah Sexual Orientation and Gender Identity and Expression Section. Orientasi seksual yaitu deskripsi emosional atau ketertarikan seksual terhadap orang lain. Misalnya: homoseksual, heteroseksual atau biseksual. Identitas gender adalah  dapat diartikan sebagai cara seseorang merasa atau melihat dirinya, apakah sebagai perempuan, laki-laki atau transgender. Pilihan ekspresi adalah bagaimana orang mengekspresikan dirinya. Misalnya feminim, maskulin, atau androgin. Gue kasih contoh, bisa jadi seorang perempuan (identitas gendernya), biologi seksnya seorang perempuan juga, lesbian (seksual orientasinya) berarti dia menyukai sesama jenis dan gender ekspresinya androgin (kadang suka berpakaian seperti apa, pembawaan dirinya seperti apa).

Orang-orang dengan orientasi seksualnya adalah homoseksual sama seperti orang-orang yang orientasi seksualanya adalah heteroseksual. Sama-sama manusia, sama-sama makan nasi, sama-sama membutuhkan cinta dan kasih sayang, sama-sama punya hak untuk didengarkan. Sama-sama bisa punya pacar. Hehe

Oke balik lagi ke gambar gue yang paling atas. Gambar orang berfoto bersama dan dibawahnya ada simbol hati. Itu cinta. Ya memang cinta gak memandang umur, status, atau bahkan gender. Cinta bisa datang pada siapa aja dan kapan aja. 

Sunday, January 11, 2015

Animals Test

The following is a list of eight different sets of animals. Points are attached to each animal. Choose one animal that you like most in each set and add up your total score. Refer to the score sheet for your result.

Koala Bear = 2
Polar Bear = 3
Panda = 1

Eagle = 3
Seagull= 2
Pigeon = 1

Cat = 3
Dog = 2
Bird = 1

Hamster = 2
Rabbit = 1
Squirrel = 3

Sheep = 1
Deer = 2
Goat = 3

Dolphin = 1
Shark = 3
Whale = 2

Elephant = 2
Lion = 1
Tiger = 3

Swan = 1
Goose = 3
Hen = 2



Score sheet
Between 8 - 11 points:
You are passive, sentimental, emotional, lack self-confidence, but are creative and rational.

Between 12 - 15 points:
You belong to the fun-seekers, risk takers, adventurous and spontaneous types, but are not very rational.

Between 16 - 19 points:
You are active, like challenges, optimistic, hard-working, and are always working towards a set goal.

Between 20 - 24 points:
You have a strong character and you are aggressive and ambitious. You were born to lead.

Thursday, January 8, 2015

who says by Selena Gomez

Lagu yang menyemangati para cewek dikala merasa "jelek".
I wouldn't wanna be anybody else, yeah
You made me insecure, told me I wasn't good enough
But who are you to judge.
When you're a diamond in the rough
I'm sure you got some things
You'd like to change about yourself
But when it comes to me
I wouldn't want to be anybody else

Na na na na na na na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na na na na na na na na
I'm no beauty queen, I'm just beautiful me

Na na na na na na na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na na na na na na na na
You've got every right to a beautiful life, come on

Who says, who says you're not perfect
Who says you're not worth it
Who says you're the only one that's hurting
Trust me that's the price of beauty
Who says you're not pretty
Who says you're not beautiful, who says?

It's such a funny thing
How nothing's funny when it's you
You tell 'em what you mean
But they can't whiten out the truth

It's like the work of art
That never gets to see the light
Keep you beneath the stars
Won't let you touch the sky

Na na na na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na na na na na
I'm no beauty queen, I'm just beautiful me

Na na na na na na na na na na
Na na na na na na na na na na
You've got every right to a beautiful life, come on

Who says, who says you're not perfect
Who says you're not worth it
Who says you're the only one that's hurting
Trust me that's the price of beauty
Who says you're not pretty
Who says you're not beautiful, who says?

Who says you're not star potential
Who says you're not presidential
Who says you can't be in movies
Listen to me, listen to me.

Who says you don't pass the test
Who says you can't be the best
Who said, who said?
Would you tell me who said that, yeah
Who said

Who says, who says you're not perfect
Who says you're not worth it
Who says you're the only one that's hurting
Trust me that's the price of beauty
Who says you're not pretty
Who says you're not beautiful, who says?

Who says you're not perfect
Who says you're not worth it
Who says you're the only one that's hurting
Trust me that's the price of beauty
Who says you're not pretty
Who says you're not beautiful, who says?

Tuesday, January 6, 2015

Superhero Test

Choose a superhero ability and read your profile!


  • The ability to fly.
  • Time-travel ability.
  • Invisibility.
  • X-ray vision.
  • The power to change forms.
  • The ability to read minds.
  • The ability to see into the future.
  • Super hearing.

Analysis

  • Flying - You like to see the "big picture" of life and how things fit together. Little details annoy you. You enjoy being free and taking risks. Career clue: You would make a good pilot or astronaut. Consider a job that will let you affect policies, maybe in government or a public research group.
  • Time travel - You are interested in the causes of things and how past mistakes can be used to shape the future. You are very curious about how different people live. Career clue: You enjoy activities that enable you to affect change. A career in scientific research, history, or human behavior might be the place for you.
  • Invisibility - You tend to be shy, or a very keen observer. Or both. You like to know everything that is going on around you. Career clue: A writer, artist, or private investigator.
  • X-ray vision - You like to "see through" problems and get to the heart of an issue. You enjoy challenges and solving problems that other people can't even see. Career clue: Physics, politics, math, and medicine are all fields that need skilled problem-solvers.
  • Changing forms - You are a sociable person who likes to fit in. Perhaps you want to be admired by the group. Either way, you're a real crowd pleaser! Career clue: Entertainment might be the field for you.
  • Mind reading - You're good at guessing what other people think. You can read between the lines. Career clue: Counselor or psychologist.
  • Seeing into the future - You are very creative and love adventure. You would move right into the future if you could! You are always looking at what might be possible, and wondering how to make it happen sooner. Career clue: A career on the cutting edge of things may be right for you. Think about becoming an explorer, research scientist, inventor, or science fiction writer.
  • Super hearing - You pay close attention to sounds and patterns. You like to be fully informed about the latest news. Some might even say that you are nosy! Career clue: You could make an excellent reporter or gossip columnist. Or you might decide to become a musician.

Sunday, January 4, 2015

The Bridge Test

There is a very narrow bridge over a river. One day a goat that was crossing this bridge met another goat just in the middle. There was no room for both of them to pass. Which of the following can you imagine as the most likely scenario?

A. One goat willingly turned back to let the other goat pass first.

B. The two goats charged against each other, and, after a few rounds of confrontation, the stronger goat forced the loser to yield.

C. One goat lay down on the bridge, and the other goat walked lightly over him.

D. The two goats charged against each other and both fell off the bridge and into the deep river below.

E. One goat retraced its way and waited for the other goat to come over; then, instead of going over to the other side, it stayed to play and graze with its new friend.



Analysis

A. Courteous and flexible. You believe in rational solutions to life's challenges, and, to achieve that goal, you are willing to make concessions and compromises.

B. You are confrontational in your approach to life. You have a thirst for power and usually take an all or nothing approach to life. You could be merciless, even though you do not always turn out to be the victor.

C. You act in a way that benefits the common good. You are wise and avoid confrontation when it is not called for. While you may appear submissive to some people, in reality you have a high self esteem that enables you to be warm-hearted and generous to others.


D. You hold a rather pessimistic view of human nature and are cynical about the world in general. You are weary of all the struggles and scuffles around you and generally tend to believe that things are headed in the wrong direction. You value peace of mind above most things even though to attain it requires a struggle.

E. Quite the idealist! Optimistic and upbeat, you believe that everything is possible. Generous and broad-minded, you want to enjoy life as much as you can and want to make as many friends as you can. Even though this hopelessly positive view of the world sometimes lets you down, it also does you a whole lot good as people enjoy being around you.

Saturday, January 3, 2015

naked versi Dev Feat. Enrique Iglesias

Lagu ini enak. :P
You got a girl that doesn’t look a thing like me
The girl your mother always said it would be so you could say you that could say that i’m hopeless.
But that ain’t the girl I want you to be.
The girl that keeps up and I see in my dreams so you could say that I love her

(Chorus) I don’t care what they say it’s our life, life, life.
We can dance if we want make it feel alright.
Temperature is rising I feel the fire.
Tonight it’s just me and you.

Tell me baby will you be here when I wake up even with no makeup.
I don’t wanna fake it.
And you don’t gotta doubt a second if I miss you every time i’m with you I feel naked.
I want it so let me get it. You say you got it. You know you ready.
If I told you girl to come run away with me now would you throw it all away from me?
I need to know that it’s not over.
Cuz you were the boy daddy told you stay way from me but you’re nothing but a fantasy.
I need to know that you’d be strong enough to believe in us.

(Chorus)

Tell me baby will you be here when I wake up even with no makeup.
I don’t wanna fake it.
And u don’t gotta doubt a second if I miss you every time i’m with you I feel naked.
I want it so let me get it. You say you got it. You know you ready

(Chorus)

So tell me baby will you be here when I wake up?
I feel naked.
I want it so let me get it. You say you got it.
Iiittsss The Cataracs!
I feel naked
I want it so let me get it. You say you got it. You know you ready
Tonight it’s just me and you

Friday, January 2, 2015

Driving in New City Test

You and your partner are driving somewhere in a new city and you are not familiar with the roads. You follow the directions given to you by your partner. It soon turns out, however, that you are lost. What are you most likely say?

A. "I thought you knew how to get there."

B. "It's ok. We enjoyed the drive anyway."

C. "I should have paid attention. When we made that left turn, I wanted to ask you about it but didn't. My fault."



Analysis

A: "I thought you knew how to get there."
Not a very forgiving person, you are quick in assigning responsibility to others. Hidden in the accusatory tone is also anger or dissatisfaction that may or may not be related to the incident per se.

B: "It's ok. We enjoyed the drive anyway."
Easygoing and understanding in your attitude, you generally consider your partner equal to yourself. The readiness with which you tolerate your partner's errors indicates a desire to be treated the same way in similar situations.

C: "I should have paid attention. When we made the left turn back over there, I wanted to ask you about it but didn't. My fault."
Self-effacing and self-accusatory, you demonstrate a tendency to bending over backwards to accommodate your partner. The relationship may be a truly sweet one, but possibly hidden in the attitude is also a certain amount of insecurity.

Thursday, January 1, 2015

mari berimajinasi tentang keluarga masa depan

Mumpung tahun baru, mari kita berimajinasi sejenak tentang masa depan. Kalau ditanya masa depan, gue akan jawab dengan senyuman. Ya, walaupun gue gak tau masa depan kayak apa sih. Cuma gue selalu berpikir positif. Everything happens for a reason.

Kalau ngomong keluarga, emmm mungkin gue akan menjadi seorang istri dan memiliki 2 orang anak laki-laki kembar. Kenapa anak laki-laki? Ya mungkin biar mereka bisa menjaga satu sama lain. Kenapa kembar? Biar sekali melahirkannya. Tapi balik lagi tergantung suami sih. Haha dia mau anak berapa. Eh gak deh, gue akan tetap memperjuangkan 2 anak. Soalnya sekarang aja biaya sekolah mahal, biaya makan, biaya lain-lain tuh udah naik. Gimana masa depan? Pasti lebih mahal kan? Jadi lebih baik punya 2 orang anak aja.

Oke, sekarang bayangkan suami. Emmm, suami kayak apa ya kira-kira? Kalau suami gue dokter/psikolog, mungkin gue akan buka praktik bareng. Walaupun dia dokter/psikolog dan mungkin gue akan jadi psikolog. Buka praktiknya di deket rumah aja, biar ngampang ngawasin anak dan pasien yang bener-bener butuh bantuan kita, bisa lebih gampang buat dateng. Kan sekalian pengabdian masyarakat. :)

Kalau suami gue guru/dosen/kepala sekolah. Mungkin gue akan menjadi psikolog di sekolahan suami gue. Entahlah, mungkin karena pendidikan penting menurut gue. Terus kita akan berusaha meningkatkan pendidikan bangsa. Ah cie! :)

Kalau suami gue pengusaha/wirausaha. Lebih enak sih, soalnya kan bisa lebih longgar tentang jadwal buka toko/kantor. Terus gak terikat waktu gitu. Jadi bisa lebih bantu ngurus anak kita nanti. Nah gue akan buka daycare/preschool. Semoga finansial mendukung. Amin :)

Kalau suami gue polisi/tentara/detektif/apa pun yang terkait dengan negara. Gue akan ngerasa aman, damai, dan tentram. Haha dia pasti terlatih dan siap siaga kan ya? Terus pasti setia. Sama negara aja setia apa lagi sama kita. Bisa ngedidik anak gue yang 2 orang laki-laki itu jadi lebih disiplin serta cinta negara tentunya. :)

Sejauh ini itu doank sih yang bisa gue bayangin tentang pekerjaan suami gue. Abis belom kepikiran lagi, kira-kira kerjaan apa. Terkait tempat tinggal. Gue mau nya tinggal di daerah pegunungan atau pun nuansa gunung/bukit. Kenapa bukit/gunung? Soalnya gue gak bisa kena panas (matahari langsung) kulit gue bisa merah-merah terus gatel dan terus menggosong. Kalau tempat adem kan gak paling gak mengurangi panasnya. (Ini teori gue doank sih)

Di dalam rumah, paling gak mesti ada 3 WC: satu buat keluarga, satu buat tamu, satu buat asisten rumah tangga. Lagian, kalau pagi-pagi pada bangun kesiangankan bisa pake toilet lain, biar gak mesti ngantri. Oh ya, gue maunya ada ruang keluarga, buat tempat ngumpul-ngumpul dan kalau bisa ada home theater. Haha biar gak cuma ngobrol aja. Kan bisa menghabiskan malem minggu di rumah sambil seru-seruan bareng terutama nonton film action sama horror atau trailer. Terus mau ada perpustakaan dan ruang kerja. Di sini gue dan suami gue nanti bisa taruh semua pekerjaan serta buku-buku. Terus ruang belajar anak juga bisa dibuat connecting door, jadi mereka bisa belajar dan lebih gampang buat nanya kalau gak bisa saat ngerjain tugas mereka.

Selesailah sudah imajinasi gue buat masa depan tentang keluarga. Ini aja udah membuat gue berkhayal aneh-aneh dan senyum-senyum sendiri. Haha ini khayalan gue, apa khayalan elo?